Monday, October 8, 2007

Communication in Dating

Does your dating relationship have good communication? Communication during dating is what will eventually make or break the dating relationship. If you can not talk or communicate with your loved one, how will they ever know what you expect from your dating relationship?

Communication in dating is essential. Not only do you need to know what your date needs and desires, you also need to know how those things play into your life. Don’t get angry with your date if he hasn’t fulfilled your every need if you didn’t communicate those needs to him in the first place. Instead, tell him what you need him to do and be. Communications like these will keep your dating relationship positive and worthwhile.

Communication in dating is something that many dating relationships lack. In fact, it is often one of the key factors in the break up of dating relationships. How can you build the communication within your relationship, then? You can start by agreeing that communication is a problem within your dating relationship. At that point, you can begin to talk or communicate about how to add communication into your every day dating lives. Can you commit to communicating your needs? Can you commit to listen to the needs of your date?

Communication in dating is not about what movie to see or where to eat. Although this is a good way to work communication in, your dating relationship needs to have other strong areas of communications. Especially important are dating relationship fundamentals like trust, commitment, and honesty. Communicating your needs and understanding those of your date are what will propel your dating relationship instead of leaving it in the dust.

By: S. A. Baker